so you can have the marriage you really want
Stop arguing
so you can have the marriage you really want
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so you can have the marriage you really want
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Most marriages don’t end because of unfaithfulness! Rather, many married couples gradually drift apart over time. Drifting apart comes from work schedules that don’t match, too many separate activities and hobbies, focusing all your time and attention on your kids and many other causes. The further apart you get the worst things become.
This will not get better on its own. You must take action or your marriage will either end or you will stay married but live disconnected, separate lives without love.
Through coaching and tools here’s what will happen:
Pastor, Police Chaplain, and Marriage Coach. Married for over 30 years with over 30 years of experience helping people.
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Kelly is a Coach Training Alliance certified coach
Kelly is a SYMBIS certified facilitator
The coaching we have received from Kelly DuPée has been the best investment we have made in our marriage. His faith and God centered suggestions and tools have helped us get through a very difficult time in our marriage. I would recommend his coaching to anyone going through a difficult time in their life or relationship.
My marriage was getting off track. Kelly not only has taken his time to listen to me and give me honest feedback, he has helped me discover tools that I use now to be a better husband and father. He has helped me look further in myself and the changes I can make to be a better partner. This has changed my life and marriage.
Kelly is an outstanding leader and his knowledge and skill helps everyone he comes in contact with. Through his many experiences Kelly is a proven life coach who can help anyone in need or who just want a little guidance.
Kelly is a master at helping a person to explore deep issues with finesse and a biblical perspective. Every opportunity I have to work with Kelly I leave refreshed and confident that I will be victorious! His services are an investment!
We found ourselves in a place where we were having the same argument over and over again. The arguing created distance in our relationship. We both knew we needed help with the way we communicate with each other. So we sought out help and found Pastor Kelly.
He was really a blessing from God. He taught us a toolset we could use to show how much we loved each other by listening more effectively. We're so glad we took the time and steps needed to nurture our marriage.
Are you and the love of your life as close as you used to be? Are conflicts occurring more often than they used to and your relationship is now full of problems? Do you dread coming home after work? Have you and your spouse simply drifted apart and now you don’t know how to reconnect and get back what you once had? This book will turn that around and show you what to do.
Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.
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When I read TURN IT UP! by Kelly DuPée my intentional love and behavior toward my beautiful incredible wife of 42 years increased and our relationship improved. Pages 10 and 11 provided enough positive information and wisdom to make the purchase worthwhile for an opportunity to dial up the love in a good relationship, and perhaps save a struggling marriage. I cannot thank you enough Kelly, for this timely much needed book.
If you want to think differently about how to strengthen, grow and foster a healthy marriage, this book is for you. I would encourage couples to read it with an open heart and open mind.
If you are not growing together, you will grow apart. Make the investment into your marriage with TURN IT UP! Your relationship will be far richer for it. All In!
Pastor Kelly DuPée is a gift to the body of Christ, his community, and our world! I have known Pastor Kelly for over 20 years and have the utmost respect for his commitment to others and the ministry he exhibits to those he serves.
His book, TURN IT UP! is a great example of his wisdom, which is dispensed in a way that can be utilized in practical relational applications. I highly recommend TURN IT UP! to you, as you will find the needed ingredients you can apply in your own marriage, as well as other relationships, which will bring added value and blessing in your world.
Pastor Kelly’s Book TURN IT UP! is a how to guide to achieving a lasting happy and successful marriage or relationship. Whether you need to improve a troubled marriage or want to maintain an already great relationship, TURN IT UP! is a no-nonsense guide guaranteed to lead you to making positive changes in marriages and relationships. With faith in God as a foundation, Pastor Kelly emphasizes the importance of building and strengthening a good connection with your spouse or significant other and prescribes five easy to understand and effective steps on making positive and lasting effects to any marriage. As a 25-year law enforcement veteran, this book has helped me identify some simple but important steps that I can take to maintain my own marriage.
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