I have compiled a list of resources that represent the best help for me and my marriage, as well as resources I know have made a difference in many others throughout my many years of experience as coach, pastor, and counselor.
Make sure you get the most out of these by diving into them with an open mind and heard, and a willingness to put to action what you learn.
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Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.
You can TURN IT UP! and revive your relationship or marriage. TURN IT UP! will give you five commitments to make and five skills to learn that will teach you how to strengthen your connection and grow closer to each other again. When you turn it up regularly, you really can have the kind of marriage you want and have it last a lifetime.
Counseling or therapy tends to look backward to heal the hurts of your past that are impacting you today. Coaching looks forward to where you want to be and supports you as you create and implement the action plan that will get you there. Coaching is not…
One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make in relationships and life is not asking for help. Asking for help is for the strong Asking for help is hard! We don’t want to admit that we have a problem we can’t solve or a need that we cannot meet. We don’t want to …
Have you ever had your spouse say to you after trying to talk to you, “You just don’t get it.” They are not saying you are stupid; they are saying that they don’t feel you understand them. Or have you ever been…
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Every marriage has conflict because every marriage involves two imperfect people! The question isn't whether you'll hurt each other - it's how quickly you'll resolve it! A considerate spouse owns ...their mistakes quickly and apologizes right away! But a real apology does more than just say "sorry" - it names the offense, commits to not doing it again, and asks "Will you forgive me?" But equally important? The forgiveness that's offered! Holding onto bitterness is like poison that slowly destroys your relationship! Ephesians 4 tells us to "forgive one another because God forgave you!" We're called to forgive our spouse with the same measure of grace God showed us! A quick cycle of apology and forgiveness keeps your relationship healthy and strong! Ready to master this? Type GUIDE for my free communication toolkit! 📖💪 #ChristianMarriage #QuickForgiveness #ApologyMatters #ForgivenessHeals #EphesiansWisdom #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalForgiveness #ChristianCouples #HealthyConflict #MarriageGoals #GraceInMarriage #RelationshipSkills #MarriageMinistry[+] Show More
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How Long Is TOO LONG to Stay Mad at Your Spouse?
Every marriage has conflict because every marriage involves two ...
Every marriage has conflict because every marriage involves two imperfect people! The question isn't whether you'll hurt each other - it's how quickly you'll resolve it! A considerate spouse owns ...their mistakes quickly and apologizes right away! But a real apology does more than just say "sorry" - it names the offense, commits to not doing it again, and asks "Will you forgive me?" But equally important? The forgiveness that's offered! Holding onto bitterness is like poison that slowly destroys your relationship! Ephesians 4 tells us to "forgive one another because God forgave you!" We're called to forgive our spouse with the same measure of grace God showed us! A quick cycle of apology and forgiveness keeps your relationship healthy and strong! Ready to master this? Type GUIDE for my free communication toolkit! 📖💪 #ChristianMarriage #QuickForgiveness #ApologyMatters #ForgivenessHeals #EphesiansWisdom #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalForgiveness #ChristianCouples #HealthyConflict #MarriageGoals #GraceInMarriage #RelationshipSkills #MarriageMinistry[+] Show More
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The Most INTIMATE Thing Married Couples Can Do (Most Are Too Scared!)
The most intimate thing couples can do together? PRAYING TOGETHER! We ...
The most intimate thing couples can do together? PRAYING TOGETHER! We pray at church, before meals, maybe alone - but praying as a couple is a total game changer! When ...you pray together, you invite God to the very center of your relationship! You're admitting you can't do this alone and need His wisdom and grace! Jesus said "where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I with them!" (Matthew 18:20) This doesn't have to be long or formal - just hold hands and talk to God! It's hard to stay angry with someone you're consistently bringing before the throne of grace! Sharing your hearts with God together builds spiritual intimacy that carries you through any trial! Ready to transform your marriage? Type GUIDE for my free communication guide! #ChristianMarriage #PrayTogether #SpiritualIntimacy #MarriageGoals #PrayerChangesEverything #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianCouples #GodCenteredMarriage #MarriageAdvice #ThroneOfGrace #MarriageMinistry #PrayerPartners[+] Show More
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What's in It for ME?' - The Marriage Question That Changes Everything!
Why serve your spouse? What's in it for you? Culture screams "look out ...
Why serve your spouse? What's in it for you? Culture screams "look out for number one!" but marriage among Jesus followers calls us to live completely differently! We're ...called to serve selflessly without keeping score! Being considerate means thinking throughout the day: "What does my spouse need? How can I lighten their load?" Take out trash without being asked, run errands, give them an hour to themselves - without expecting anything back! This isn't just nice - it's biblical! 1 Corinthians 10:24 says "seek the good of others!" When both spouses try to out-serve each other, your marriage becomes a beautiful picture of Christ's sacrificial love! That's what transforms good marriages into great ones! Ready to serve better? Type GUIDE for my free communication toolkit! #ChristianMarriage #ServeEachOther #SacrificalLove #MarriageGoals #BiblicalMarriage #OutServe #ChristianCouples #SelflessLove #MarriageAdvice #ConsiderateSpouse #MarriageMinistry #ChristLikeLoveRetryClaude can make mistakes. Please double-check responses.[+] Show More
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