I have compiled a list of resources that represent the best help for me and my marriage, as well as resources I know have made a difference in many others throughout my many years of experience as coach, pastor, and counselor.
Make sure you get the most out of these by diving into them with an open mind and heard, and a willingness to put to action what you learn.
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Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.
You can TURN IT UP! and revive your relationship or marriage. TURN IT UP! will give you five commitments to make and five skills to learn that will teach you how to strengthen your connection and grow closer to each other again. When you turn it up regularly, you really can have the kind of marriage you want and have it last a lifetime.
Counseling or therapy tends to look backward to heal the hurts of your past that are impacting you today. Coaching looks forward to where you want to be and supports you as you create and implement the action plan that will get you there. Coaching is not…
One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make in relationships and life is not asking for help. Asking for help is for the strong Asking for help is hard! We don’t want to admit that we have a problem we can’t solve or a need that we cannot meet. We don’t want to …
Have you ever had your spouse say to you after trying to talk to you, “You just don’t get it.” They are not saying you are stupid; they are saying that they don’t feel you understand them. Or have you ever been…
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How to Help a Grieving Spouse When You Don’t Know What to Say
Watching your spouse grieve can leave you feeling helpless. 😔 But sometimes, the most powerful comfort isn’t in the words you say—it’s in the things you do.
Galatians 6:2 reminds us: ...“Carry each other’s burdens.” 💪
So today, support them in practical, love-filled ways:
🍽️ Cook a meal
🧺 Handle a chore
🚗 Run an errand
👶 Take care of the kids
These small acts whisper, “I see you. I’m with you. You’re not alone.”
Grief is heavy—but with your care, it becomes a little lighter.
❤️ If you want more support on this topic, type “grief” in the comments, and I’ll send you a deeper message on how to walk this journey together.
#ChristianMarriage #FaithInGrief #SupportYourSpouse #Galatians62 #LoveInAction #MarriageGodsWay #GriefSupport #BiblicalMarriage #GodHeals[+] Show More
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How to Help a Grieving Spouse When You Don’t Know What to Say
Watching your spouse grieve can leave you feeling helpless. 😔 But ...
Watching your spouse grieve can leave you feeling helpless. 😔 But sometimes, the most powerful comfort isn’t in the words you say—it’s in the things you do.
Galatians 6:2 reminds us: ...“Carry each other’s burdens.” 💪
So today, support them in practical, love-filled ways:
🍽️ Cook a meal
🧺 Handle a chore
🚗 Run an errand
👶 Take care of the kids
These small acts whisper, “I see you. I’m with you. You’re not alone.”
Grief is heavy—but with your care, it becomes a little lighter.
❤️ If you want more support on this topic, type “grief” in the comments, and I’ll send you a deeper message on how to walk this journey together.
#ChristianMarriage #FaithInGrief #SupportYourSpouse #Galatians62 #LoveInAction #MarriageGodsWay #GriefSupport #BiblicalMarriage #GodHeals[+] Show More
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Marriage Expert Reveals Top Tips to Break the Fight or Flight Cycle
Overcoming the Fight or Flight Response in Marriage Conflicts Do you ...
Overcoming the Fight or Flight Response in Marriage Conflicts
Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle where every conflict with your spouse turns either into a heated argument or ...total disengagement? In this video, Kelly Dupee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, discusses why the 'fight or flight' response occurs in marital conflicts, its damaging effects, and how you can overcome it. Learn biblical strategies to stay engaged during tough conversations, understand the root of your flight response, and hear tips on how to communicate effectively to build a stronger and more loving marriage. Kelly offers practical advice rooted in Scripture and shares a free communication guide for couples. Key strategies include reminding yourself of God's presence, speaking gently instead of shutting down, asking for God's strength, taking a strategic timeout, and committing to stay engaged a little longer each time. Watch for a detailed approach to transforming your marriage from one of fear and avoidance to one of understanding and connection.
00:00 Introduction: Walking on Eggshells in Marriage
00:32 Understanding the Fight or Flight Response
01:45 The Role of Fear in Conflict Avoidance
02:22 Biblical Guidance for Overcoming Conflict
04:07 Practical Strategies to Stay Engaged
07:12 Taking a Timeout: A Promise to Return
10:05 Building a Stronger Marriage: Small Steps, Big Changes
10:42 Conclusion: Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For
The Truth That Heals: How Honesty Strengthens Your Marriage
Afraid that honesty might hurt your spouse? 😟 The truth is—honesty, ...
Afraid that honesty might hurt your spouse? 😟 The truth is—honesty, spoken in love, builds trust and deepens connection.
Ephesians 4:15 reminds us to “speak the truth in love.” That means ...not just being real—but being kind, patient, and clear as you express what’s on your heart.
🛑 If you’re angry, pause and pray first.
🗣️ Then speak with empathy, not just emotion.
❤️ Real connection happens when truth is shared with grace.
Start building a marriage where honesty isn’t scary—but safe.
If you agree, type “yes” in the comments and let’s grow in love and truth together.
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