Helpful Tools

I have compiled a list of resources that represent the best help for me and my marriage, as well as resources I know have made a difference in many others throughout my many years of experience as coach, pastor, and counselor.

Make sure you get the most out of these by diving into them with an open mind and heard, and a willingness to put to action what you learn.

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Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.

You can TURN IT UP! and revive your relationship or marriage. TURN IT UP! will give you five commitments to make and five skills to learn that will teach you how to strengthen your connection and grow closer to each other again. When you turn it up regularly, you really can have the kind of marriage you want and have it last a lifetime.

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Coaching Marriage

What is Coaching

Counseling or therapy tends to look backward to heal the hurts of your past that are impacting you today. Coaching looks forward to where you want to be and supports you as you create and implement the action plan that will get you there. Coaching is not…

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Coaching Marriage

Ask for help

One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make in relationships and life is not asking for help. Asking for help is for the strong Asking for help is hard! We don’t want to admit that we have a problem we can’t solve or a need that we cannot meet. We don’t want to …

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Communication Marriage

How to help someone feel understood

Have you ever had your spouse say to you after trying to talk to you, “You just don’t get it.” They are not saying you are stupid; they are saying that they don’t feel you understand them. Or have you ever been…

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It's all about Planning

📍 The saying goes, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail." To charge up your marriage, take out your calendar and schedule those dates. Variety will keep things ...fresh. Guys often like side-by-side activities like watching a game or playing golf, while women usually prefer face-to-face activities like having dinner. Do both, and if you can afford it, plan bigger events like a weekend getaway or a vacation. Consistently planning time together and making special memories with your spouse will strengthen your marriage.

#DateNights #MarriageTips #RelationshipGoals #PlanTogether #HealthyRelationship #ChristianMarriage #StrongerTogether #VarietyInMarriage #QualityTime #MarriageCoach

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It's all about Planning

📍 The saying goes, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail." To charge ...

📍 The saying goes, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail." To charge up your marriage, take out your calendar and schedule those dates. Variety will keep things ...fresh. Guys often like side-by-side activities like watching a game or playing golf, while women usually prefer face-to-face activities like having dinner. Do both, and if you can afford it, plan bigger events like a weekend getaway or a vacation. Consistently planning time together and making special memories with your spouse will strengthen your marriage.

#DateNights #MarriageTips #RelationshipGoals #PlanTogether #HealthyRelationship #ChristianMarriage #StrongerTogether #VarietyInMarriage #QualityTime #MarriageCoach

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Charge Up your Marriage

Want to charge up your marriage? The first step is to prioritize ...

Want to charge up your marriage? The first step is to prioritize spending time with each other. It's essential, not optional. Yes, there'll be obstacles, but understanding its importance helps ...you find creative ways to overcome them. Some couples feel guilty about spending time alone together, but a strong, long-lasting marriage requires this investment. Don't let guilt stop you from nurturing your relationship. Make it a priority and see your marriage thrive.

#QualityTime #MarriageTips #RelationshipGoals #SpendTimeTogether #HealthyRelationship #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #StrongerTogether #MarriageCoach #RechargeYourMarriage

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Best Way to Charge Up your Relationship

📍 Do you know the simplest and best way to charge up and strengthen ...

📍 Do you know the simplest and best way to charge up and strengthen your marriage or relationship? It might sound like common sense, but many couples let this slip, ...causing their marriage to suffer. The answer is simple: Spend time together. Just like your phone needs charging, your marriage needs quality time to thrive.

Even if you're busy or have kids, creating moments of connection is crucial. Don't let your relationship weaken—spend time together and watch your marriage grow stronger.

#QualityTime #MarriageTips #RelationshipGoals #SpendTimeTogether #HealthyRelationship #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #StrongerTogether #MarriageCoach #RechargeYourMarriage

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Books

Please make sure to access my curated list of books in the link below.

Turn It Up!: How to have the lifelong marriage that you really want

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

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The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

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