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I have compiled a list of resources that represent the best help for me and my marriage, as well as resources I know have made a difference in many others throughout my many years of experience as coach, pastor, and counselor.

Make sure you get the most out of these by diving into them with an open mind and heard, and a willingness to put to action what you learn.

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Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.

You can TURN IT UP! and revive your relationship or marriage. TURN IT UP! will give you five commitments to make and five skills to learn that will teach you how to strengthen your connection and grow closer to each other again. When you turn it up regularly, you really can have the kind of marriage you want and have it last a lifetime.

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Turn It Up Coaching: What is coaching, couples at a counseling session

What is Coaching

Counseling or therapy tends to look backward to heal the hurts of your past that are impacting you today. Coaching looks forward to where you want to be and supports you as you create and implement the action plan that will get you there. Coaching is not…

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Turn It Up Coaching: Ask for Help, man helping a woman move boxes

Ask for help

One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make in relationships and life is not asking for help. Asking for help is for the strong Asking for help is hard! We don’t want to admit that we have a problem we can’t solve or a need that we cannot meet. We don’t want to …

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Healing the hurt in your marriage

Healing the hurt in your marriage - do you know how? If you are feeling pain in your marriage, there is a reason for your pain. The pain is telling ...you something is wrong that needs to be addressed.

Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach discusses emotional hurt in marriages and how to heal it. The episode highlights five main steps; acknowledging the pain, confronting the person who caused the hurt, seeking external assistance if necessary, forgiving the person, and choosing to rebuild the relationship. Coach Kelly also takes a faith-based approach, encouraging couples to pray and ask for God's wisdom. Beyond this, he emphasizes the importance of understanding that healing from emotional pain in a marriage does not mean returning to the way things were before the hurt occurred. Instead, it's about letting go of the pain and moving forward in the relationship.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:48 Understanding the Pain in Your Marriage
02:07 The Role of Pain in Relationships
03:23 Steps to Heal the Hurt in Your Marriage
05:44 The Power of Forgiveness in Healing
06:50 Choosing to Rebuild and Restore Trust
07:59 The Importance of Seeking Professional Help
08:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
09:11 Closing Remarks and Resources

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Disclosure: I have an affiliate marketing relationship with Amazon. I get paid a small commission if you buy any of the books I recommend by clicking on them from my site. I never recommend a book that I have not read myself and found helpful. The books I recommend have helped me tremendously and I hope they do the same for you.