I have compiled a list of resources that represent the best help for me and my marriage, as well as resources I know have made a difference in many others throughout my many years of experience as coach, pastor, and counselor.
Make sure you get the most out of these by diving into them with an open mind and heard, and a willingness to put to action what you learn.
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Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.
You can TURN IT UP! and revive your relationship or marriage. TURN IT UP! will give you five commitments to make and five skills to learn that will teach you how to strengthen your connection and grow closer to each other again. When you turn it up regularly, you really can have the kind of marriage you want and have it last a lifetime.
Counseling or therapy tends to look backward to heal the hurts of your past that are impacting you today. Coaching looks forward to where you want to be and supports you as you create and implement the action plan that will get you there. Coaching is not…
One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make in relationships and life is not asking for help. Asking for help is for the strong Asking for help is hard! We don’t want to admit that we have a problem we can’t solve or a need that we cannot meet. We don’t want to …
Have you ever had your spouse say to you after trying to talk to you, “You just don’t get it.” They are not saying you are stupid; they are saying that they don’t feel you understand them. Or have you ever been…
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Prayer for Hearts That Are Breaking in Love Right Now 💔🙏
If your relationship is struggling, this prayer is straight from Heaven for YOU! 🙏✨ Sometimes we need God to do what we CAN'T do - but then show us ...what we CAN do! Praying for softened hearts, unity, harmony, good communication, and LOVE to return! God sees your pain and He's ready to heal and guide you through His Holy Spirit! Let Him give you strength to do what He's calling you to do! If this prayer speaks to your heart, type AMEN in the comments! 👇 God bless your relationship! #PrayerForRelationships #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipStruggles #HolySpiritGuidance #PrayerWarrior #GodHealsHearts #ChristianCouples #MarriageMinistry #LoveRestoration #FaithInLove #PrayerChangesThings #GodSoftensHearts[+] Show More
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Prayer for Hearts That Are Breaking in Love Right Now 💔🙏
If your relationship is struggling, this prayer is straight from ...
If your relationship is struggling, this prayer is straight from Heaven for YOU! 🙏✨ Sometimes we need God to do what we CAN'T do - but then show us ...what we CAN do! Praying for softened hearts, unity, harmony, good communication, and LOVE to return! God sees your pain and He's ready to heal and guide you through His Holy Spirit! Let Him give you strength to do what He's calling you to do! If this prayer speaks to your heart, type AMEN in the comments! 👇 God bless your relationship! #PrayerForRelationships #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipStruggles #HolySpiritGuidance #PrayerWarrior #GodHealsHearts #ChristianCouples #MarriageMinistry #LoveRestoration #FaithInLove #PrayerChangesThings #GodSoftensHearts[+] Show More
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What Really Happens When You Assume the Worst?
The stories we create about our partner's actions can significantly ...
The stories we create about our partner's actions can significantly impact our relationships. Jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst can breed unnecessary problems such as resentment. Cultivating better communication ...skills is crucial for understanding and addressing concerns effectively, ultimately strengthening the bond and fostering healthier relationships.
In this video, I address one of the most destructive patterns in relationships—false narratives. As an experienced pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, I explain how these false stories formed in our minds can erode trust and weaken marriages. I offer a five-part Biblical solution called the PAUSE principle to help couples break free from this toxic habit. The steps include pausing to reassess assumptions, asking questions, understanding your spouse's perspective, speaking the truth in love, and extending grace and forgiveness. Watch till the end for a life-changing practical solution and a special offer!
00:00 Introduction: The Power of Narratives in Relationships
01:27 Understanding False Narratives
03:19 The Three Reasons We Create False Narratives
04:51 The Biblical Solution: The Pause Principle
09:44 Applying the Pause Principle
11:55 Conclusion: Transform Your Marriage
For more on this, check out this video -
How to Ask your Spouse for what you Really want and Need https://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCg
If Your Marriage Is Falling Apart, This Prayer Is For YOU!
Is your relationship in trouble? Fighting, arguing, distance, ...
Is your relationship in trouble? Fighting, arguing, distance, conflict? 💔😢 You're not alone! Sometimes we need to invite the Holy Spirit in to do what we can't do on our ...own. God sees your pain and He CARES. Let's ask Him to lead you, change things, and give you FAITH that it's going to get better. Reconciliation and restoration are possible when we follow His guidance. If this prayer touched your heart, type AMEN in the comments! God bless your marriage! #PrayerForMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageStruggles #HolySpiritHelp #MarriageRestoration #PrayerWarrior #GodHealsMarriage #ChristianCouples #MarriageMinistry #FaithOverFear #PrayerChangesThings #JesusHealsRelationships[+] Show More
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Disclosure: I have an affiliate marketing relationship with Amazon. I get paid a small commission if you buy any of the books I recommend by clicking on them from my site. I never recommend a book that I have not read myself and found helpful. The books I recommend have helped me tremendously and I hope they do the same for you.
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