I have compiled a list of resources that represent the best help for me and my marriage, as well as resources I know have made a difference in many others throughout my many years of experience as coach, pastor, and counselor.
Make sure you get the most out of these by diving into them with an open mind and heard, and a willingness to put to action what you learn.
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Everything is great when you’re in love! But life has a way of turning that down. You start drifting apart, conflicts arise, you get busy with other things, and then you realize the quality of your connection and the closeness you once experienced has diminished. Some couples call it quits and walk away. But you can do something about this.
You can TURN IT UP! and revive your relationship or marriage. TURN IT UP! will give you five commitments to make and five skills to learn that will teach you how to strengthen your connection and grow closer to each other again. When you turn it up regularly, you really can have the kind of marriage you want and have it last a lifetime.
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Videos
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How to Control Your Anger and Protect Your Marriage: 10 Biblical Ways (Ephesians 4:26-27)
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In this video you will learn:
- What Ephesians 4:26-27 actually means by "be angry and do not sin," and why anger itself isn't the problem
- Why unresolved anger gives the enemy a foothold in your marriage, and why the timing matters
- How to notice the early warning signs of anger in your own body before you're already out of control
- Ten Biblical, practical steps to control your anger, from surrendering it to Jesus to calmly confronting the real issue with an "I" statement
- How to tell the difference between reacting out of anger and responding with self-control
If you've ever said something in anger you wish you could take back, or you're tired of anger quietly wearing down your marriage, this video will show you a better way forward.
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Scriptures referenced: Ephesians 4:26-27, John 10:10, Luke 9:23, Proverbs 29:11
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For personalized help, book your free 30-minute strategy call, visit turnitup.coach or call or text 626-804-1731 or schedule online at https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call
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Download my free Couples Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide
Watch my video, How to Respond to an Angry Person, for the bucket of gasoline vs. bucket of water idea mentioned in this video: https://youtu.be/REJ3kJ_Tk9A
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ABOUT KELLY
Kelly DuPee is a Christian marriage coach, ordained pastor, and author who helps couples avoid the pain of divorce so that they can have the marriage God wants them to have. He holds a Master's degree in theology and a Bachelor's degree in psychology, a combination that allows him to offer both Biblically grounded and research-based solutions to marriage challenges. After 35 years serving as an associate pastor at a megachurch, Kelly stepped into full-time Christian marriage coaching while continuing his ministry as an ordained pastor and active police chaplain serving his local department and community. His chaplaincy work has equipped him to help couples and individuals process traumatic experiences, de-escalate conflict, communicate more effectively, and grieve loss. Married to his wife for almost 39 years, Kelly has coached hundreds of couples from across the United States and internationally. His approach is practical, faith-based, and built on nearly four decades of walking with real people through real marriage struggles.
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Books
Please make sure to access my curated list of books in the link below.
Disclosure: I have an affiliate marketing relationship with Amazon. I get paid a small commission if you buy any of the books I recommend by clicking on them from my site. I never recommend a book that I have not read myself and found helpful. The books I recommend have helped me tremendously and I hope they do the same for you.
