Are you in “work mode” when you come home?
Are you still in “work” mode when you get home? Learn how to turn that off and shift so that you can listen and support your loved ones instead of giving them unsolicited advice.
Ask the Connection Question
Would you like to strengthen your marriage? A great way to do that is to ask the Connection Question. Do you want a stronger connection? Everyone in a romantic relationship wants two things. We want that relationship to be great and we want it to last. The problem is that we don’t know how …
How to help someone feel understood – 5 steps
Have you ever had your spouse say to you after trying to talk to you, “You just don’t get it.” They are not saying you are stupid; they are saying that they don’t feel you understand them. Or have you ever been…
Stop telling your spouse what to do!
Here’s a marriage tip – stop telling your spouse what to do! Do you have the bad habit of telling your spouse what to do? In my marriage coaching, I’ve noticed that a lot of couples tell each other what to do. They give orders and commands to each other like, “go to the store …
Change your marriage – tell your spouse the truth with love
One of the best ways to change your marriage is to tell your spouse the truth with love. Are you frustrated and perhaps angry because of your spouse’s annoying or hurtful behavior? Would you like that to change? This post will help you tell your spouse the truth but do it in a way that …
Why and how to give grace to others
How do you want people to treat you when you make a mistake? If you would like others to give you grace, then give grace to others! When you make a mistake do you want your loved ones to: Judge you Ask you “why did you do that?” Show their disappointment in you? Speak to …
How to ask for help – 7 ways
Ask for help! Even though it’s hard to do, it’s something we all need to learn and do. Here are 7 ways you can easily use to make your relationships better. Asking for help is hard One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make in relationships and life is not asking for help. …
The biggest mistake husbands make when their wives are upset
Do you know what the biggest mistake husbands make when their wives are upset? Guys we really blow it sometimes. When our wives come to us upset, if you’re like me the first thing you ask yourself is, “what did I do now?” Maybe it’s not anything you did. She might be upset, angry, hurt, …
How to ask open ended questions
Have you ever tried to have a conversation with your spouse or one of your kids and all you got was a simple one-word answer? All of us have. Here’s a tip – ask open ended questions. You want to connect and enter their world so you ask, “how are you?” The answer you get …
What is Coaching
Counseling or therapy tends to look backward to heal the hurts of your past that are impacting you today. Coaching looks forward to where you want to be and supports you as you create and implement the action plan that will get you there. Coaching is not…
